Just disappearing, or not returning calls, is cowardly. Breaking up through texts? E-mails? Voicemail? Tacky. And cruel. Starting a fight may easily backfire on you. After all, you've had fights before and made up. Telling your friends the other is not desirable to you is a bad idea. It's a circle of friends, and it's sure to get back to him or her.
You think breaking the news in a restaurant is a good idea, because the other person won't make a scene? Not a great idea. The other person has nothing to lose. Maybe he or she wants to make a scene to humiliate you! You come across as the villain. And she might order the lobster and champagne!
Maybe someone else caught your eye. Sharing that information is hurtful and mean. And never forget there might be repercussions from a scorned ex.
http://www.fixorbreakup.com/blog/2009/04/12/worst-ways-to-break-up.html
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